when I saw this post from A.D. Woods I just had to post. I mean using your mind to awaken her sexual senses can be very erotic. I say this because men need that visual picture. Women need touch, taste, sounds, scent and a blindfold to get aroused. And guys please go slow. Touch her […]
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Can you imagine loving another person with every inch of your being? I can, and I do. There is no greater joy in this world than waking up each day and knowing that there’s someone who has your back, front, and all those in-between’s. Life is hard! But it would be even harder to […]
Because sometimes sex is the answer. And when the sex is that good nothing else matters. When he or she can take you to that place of ecstasy. When you feel those orgasms start to creep up and inside of you. All rational thought goes out the window. It’s just you and he/ she and […]
It’s that time of year again. So lets all celebrate May’s Masturbation month one orgasm at a time. Did you know that pleasuring yourself is your birthright. I mean you close the door, get naked, open your toy chest, pick out your favorite toy, or not, lie on the bed, spread your legs, add some […]
We celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary yesterday, 4-20. We knew we had to be careful. But I wasn’t worried. Not with the kind of man he is. I love how he gently touches me, watches me, knows me, and how he takes control. He was amazing as he gave his girl just what she […]

When I decided to have this spinal fusion I really thought we had all our bases covered. I mean we talked about every possible scenario. What if I lose my legs? What If I am worse off after? What if my Mom dies while we’re in Florida? These were the hard facts of having a […]

Sex is an act of pleasure. It’s the kind of pleasure that we should all be making time for. Sex is something that shouldn’t be given away just because you can. Sex should be shared with that one person you feel most connected too. Passionate sex is the kind of sex that is most desired. […]
After listening to the Norah Jones song that Pandora posted of course I had to re-blog. It put me in the mood. So I had no choice but to go to U-tube and listen to some more of my favorites girls, Norah, Carol, Stevie, and Bonnie to name a few. Now I’m not sure if […]

And when we find that special someone hold on to them. Do what ever it takes to make them happy. Learn to love the little things that drive you crazy. Nothing is as important as communication. Respect goes both ways. Love each other with all you have. Forgive the little things and the big things […]
I found this Sensual Massage on Holistic Wisdom and thought you all would like it. This blog post gives you the tools you need for a night of touch as well as passion. The writer shows you what music to use. What tools you’ll need. What kind of lubrication to use and not to use. And […]
My Cunnilingus Tips is Sexy Sunday #54 This week while I searched for my Sexy Sunday topic I came across Kittykat’s Bitandbobs Word 4 Wednesday, or W4W as she calls it. Of course with sex on the brain for my SS post I used my favorite word, Cunnilingus. post-body entry-content”> Then I got back to my […]

I am thrilled that I have past the year mark where my Sexy Sunday post are concerned. I didn’t even realize I’d done it until I started writing the title of this post. So Yaa me! Ok with that said you all know I’ve got a lot going on. But this week is Valentines day. […]

I love it when my body betrays my mind. It’s a kind of freedom that lets me be who I am or who I was always afraid to be. And Yet he knows that. And always has known that about me. How is it that he knows when I need his touch the most? […]
Harvard University Offers ‘What What In The Butt: Anal Sex 101’. It’s not so hard to see why Harvard is focusing on how we can all have healthier sex lives. Harvard was smart enough to reach out to one of the Goodvibes educators for this years sex week programming. Who else could give the best […]
Having a Physical relationship will always depend on how you treat each other. But since we all want our relationship to last, then you will have to work on it. There also must be respect on both parts. You give respect and you get respect back.
This post says so much, we are wild at heart. And it’s that special someone who gets to tame us in ways we never thought possible.

As you can imagine when my Goodvibes kinky Santa Andy sent us the couples remote control Hula Beads Lelo and we were both extremely excited. Of course we wanted to go right out and use it. But with the holidays and family stuff to deal with we knew if we wanted to do this right […]
I can see my Sir with that sexy smirk on his face trying to make me laugh on days when I just don’t think I can. He will walk around me. Move my hair off my shoulder. And then he’ll wait with that sexy smirk on his handsome face for me to react. […]
No Doubt about it! Isn’t that what we all want. Just to be loved. Morning, noon, and especially night. So touch me, Taste me, Show me that you respect me. Let me be free to be me. Always give me a choice. Laugh with me. Share your life with me. Give me pleasure. […]
This week I received two e-mails from followers that are both in new relationships. And they both asked the same question: “Is there such a thing as too much sex?” I didn’t have to think too long about this one. Because the answer is Yes of course there’s such a thing as too much sex. […]
Help is on the way for all those women who are afraid to let their freak flags fly. There’s too many women out there that want to let go of their inhibitions but just don’t know how to do it. And I can totally relate. When I was in my twenties and thirties and […]

I was floored when kittykatsbitsandbobs nominated me for the Bad Girl Blogger award. I mean what an honor it is to be listed with these very talented and very naughty, amazing women. I’ve seen other naughty blogs getting awards, but I just never thought about someone actually adding me and my blog to their Bad […]
Sometimes a Sexy Sunday is just spending time with your spouse, or partner. It doesn’t always have to include actual sex on a Sunday or any other day of the week. It’s about being together, laughing and kissing, hugging and touching. It’s about flirting with each other like you did when you first met. […]

Have you ever wanted to hit the start re- button where your relationship is concerned? Just imagine if that button gave you and your spouse back that hot sex life you used to have. Well it can happen. You both just have to be willing to put in the effort. How hard is it to […]
Wondering What a Dom/Master is?. I recognize it is your body, mind, and soul. I dominate you only because you have allowed me to, and when I see your body kneel before me in my mind and heart, you are raised above all other women and all the treasures of the earth.
Here’s something I thought you might be interested in. Gabrielle Moore writes a damn good blog full of all kinds of sexy information. Enjoy! Oral Sex Positions That Will Make Her Quiver by Gabrielle Moore, Author The Female Orgasm Revealed Oral sex positions can make a regular cunnilingus session turn into a leg shaking, world-rocking […]
Originally posted on Nipster:
7 Blowjob Tips That Will Turn His Knees To Jelly

This was not a good week for me. I had some major dental work done in the beginning of the week. And with fall/winter coming my pain levels shoot up. You could say I’ve been down lately. So with being out of sorts I’ve kinda been out of commission, if you know what I mean. […]
Oral Sex Tips For Her Properly administered, oral sex can drive just about any man out of his mind. The biggest problem is doing it right! Throughout my experience I have had some of the worst oral sex imaginable & sometimes you just don’t have the heart to tell them it’s bad. Giving a good […]
After-50 Vaginal Maintenance by Pamela Madsen BY GOOD VIBRATIONS · 09/17/2014 Pamela Madsen’s weekly blog The Power of the Erotic usually runs on Tuesdays–apologies for not getting it up yesterday! –Carol Queen, PhD After-50 Vaginal Maintenance: What Every Owner Needs To Know Are you “After 50″ and a proud owner of a vagina? If […]

While cruising the other kinky WordPress pages I came across this great how too on Cunnilingus. In case you’re interested it was on Nipster’s page. And if you haven’t figured it out already, Nipster is my Sir, he he. He just couldn’t resist getting into the WordPress world. No he’s not a writer. But he […]
Ever try Tantric Sex of Yoni or Yoni Massage? This is sex without penetration. What better way to spend your weekend. Show her just how much you love her with touch.

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With all this talk about female ejaculation I thought I would see what Goodvibes.com had on the subject. Sure enough they never let me down. Here’s what they are saying. How to Female Ejaculate GoodVibes.com > How To Articles > G-spot & Female Ejaculation During G-spot stimulation, many women have experienced a rush of clear fluid (not urine) […]

Originally posted on Smart Girl Sex:
Masturbation is the foundation of sex. It is how we learn about our sexual bodies, our first experience of physical pleasure, and it helps define our sexuality. At is simplest, masturbation is how we practice our orgasm so that when we have a partner, we know what we want and how…

Originally posted on Smart Girl Sex:
Clitoris, Clitoris, Clitoris, Clitoris!! Did I mention the clitoris? The clitoris is the female structure of sexual pleasure. The penis is the male structure of sexual pleasure. They are analogous structures. Just as a man needs to massage his penis to stimulate himself to orgasm, a woman needs to massage the…
original by starland vocal, circa 1976, yea we are all getting old, haha..Enjoy! Four o’clock has always been the time of day that we Sir and I seem to want it most. And lately my Sir has been sending me tweets at about three in the afternoon. Here’s a few; “Get ready baby I’m […]
I wondered what to write for this weeks Sexy Sunday post. And as I strolled through the pages of Cosmo, Hanky Panky, and Doctor Laura Berman I found there was a theme being written. Fantasies are whats for Sexy Sunday. It seems everyone is talking about fantasies. What kind of fantasies you […]
I don’t know what the secret to sexual gratification is for everyone but I sure as hell know what it is for me. It’s the connection I have with my lover, my partner,my husband, my Sir. And yes they are all one person. You see my Sir and I have been having a love affair […]
Originally posted on Eternity is Worth The Fight:
What is this I hear? What is this they say? Seventy percent? I say no way! Seventy percent of Women orgasm not Not good enough girls It’s time to get hot ! Yes it’s nice to Please the men But orgasm’s for them Happen time and again…
Second Chances Sammy's story, Ch:5 excerpt.