Having a Physical relationship will always depend on how you treat each other. But since we all want our relationship to last, then you will have to work on it. There also must be respect on both parts. You give respect and you get respect back.
"...Then you stand still and I'll show you me like you never knew." I love to lose myself in words and hope that someone else will discover those words and in a way discover me, the me I keep hidden from the world. (Oh yeah, the first part of that is a song lyric from my favorite songwriter/musician. Crediting him would probably give away my identity.