We celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary yesterday, 4-20. We knew we had to be careful. But I wasn’t worried. Not with the kind of man he is. I love how he gently touches me, watches me, knows me, and how he takes control. He was amazing as he gave his girl just what she […]
Category Archives: Spinal surgery

When I decided to have this spinal fusion I really thought we had all our bases covered. I mean we talked about every possible scenario. What if I lose my legs? What If I am worse off after? What if my Mom dies while we’re in Florida? These were the hard facts of having a […]
Update: After twelve days, one spinal surgery, and two horrific setbacks, I’m really doing well. The immense pressure that once plagued my back is mostly gone. That in itself makes the choice of having this minimally invasive spinal surgery a complete success. With the pain levels dropping already I have no doubts that my life […]

Up-Date! So when there are two kinds of pains, and one is going to hurt you and the other is going to change you which hurt do you choose? Well I didn’t have a choice. When I went for this spine surgery all I know is that I woke up in miserable pain. I felt […]

Sorry! No Sex here. Life just keeps getting in the way. I’ve been a nervous wreck for the last month. And this week it’s gotten worse. You see I’ve or we’ve thought about it and decided that it’s now or never. I’m having a minimally invasive spinal fusion on March 12th. At an out-patient surgery […]