Can you imagine loving another person with every inch of your being? I can, and I do. There is no greater joy in this world than waking up each day and knowing that there’s someone who has your back, front, and all those in-between’s. Life is hard! But it would be even harder to […]
Category Archives: Respect
Because sometimes sex is the answer. And when the sex is that good nothing else matters. When he or she can take you to that place of ecstasy. When you feel those orgasms start to creep up and inside of you. All rational thought goes out the window. It’s just you and he/ she and […]
It’s been a very long strange trip for both of us. And when I say both of us I mean my hubby, Nipster and myself. So if you’re wondering why I didn’t post a sexy Sunday this week I will tell you. On the 5th of May we lost my father-in-law after a short illness. […]
It’s that time of year again. So lets all celebrate May’s Masturbation month one orgasm at a time. Did you know that pleasuring yourself is your birthright. I mean you close the door, get naked, open your toy chest, pick out your favorite toy, or not, lie on the bed, spread your legs, add some […]
Pay homage to your submissive partner. I found this on Master of Empathy’s page. Believe me when I say the man can tell an erotic story . Enjoy!
A lesson on rules in your dynamic | Brattopia!. Bratt on Brattopia has the why, where and when on D/s relationships. So go ahead and Check her out.
How many of you have been fooling around and had the bed break? For those of you who have you know it’s the best. For those of you who haven’t I can only hope that it happens soon. The laughter that occurs is pure bliss. The sex that commences is fucking raw. Then afterwards […]
We celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary yesterday, 4-20. We knew we had to be careful. But I wasn’t worried. Not with the kind of man he is. I love how he gently touches me, watches me, knows me, and how he takes control. He was amazing as he gave his girl just what she […]

When I decided to have this spinal fusion I really thought we had all our bases covered. I mean we talked about every possible scenario. What if I lose my legs? What If I am worse off after? What if my Mom dies while we’re in Florida? These were the hard facts of having a […]
I know I’ve been away for a few weeks recovering from spinal surgery but I wanted to put some kind of Sexy Sunday post out today. I figure if I can’t have it I can at least write about it. 😉 This one is for the people who are curious about kink and BDSM. […]

We just went through some real hell. Having spinal surgery of any magnitude isn’t easy. We are now on the other side and not looking forward to going home. Are Relationships easy? Hell no! But a great relationship is so worth everything. I’m doing great. Spending this time in Fl. was the best decision we […]

Up-Date! So when there are two kinds of pains, and one is going to hurt you and the other is going to change you which hurt do you choose? Well I didn’t have a choice. When I went for this spine surgery all I know is that I woke up in miserable pain. I felt […]

I really had to think about this statement before I could post it. And then it hit me. But of course it’s true. If it wasn’t you wouldn’t have picked her. And you wouldn’t still be there. If she doesn’t scare you even just a little bit then there wouldn’t be any mystery, or that […]
Annie B. Writes about the responsibility we all have when we post about BDSM. As women we are always in charge of our own bodies. Yes we may hand over the keys, but it’s only when we have learned to trust and honor. We make sure we get the respect that we so deserve before […]

Sex is an act of pleasure. It’s the kind of pleasure that we should all be making time for. Sex is something that shouldn’t be given away just because you can. Sex should be shared with that one person you feel most connected too. Passionate sex is the kind of sex that is most desired. […]
3 Words To Use Instead Of Love | Tool Box For Couples. I found this site, Toolboxforcouples.com and I knew I had to share it with my readers. Glendon seems to know what he’s talking about where couples are concerned. Go check it out..

And when we find that special someone hold on to them. Do what ever it takes to make them happy. Learn to love the little things that drive you crazy. Nothing is as important as communication. Respect goes both ways. Love each other with all you have. Forgive the little things and the big things […]
I found this Sensual Massage on Holistic Wisdom and thought you all would like it. This blog post gives you the tools you need for a night of touch as well as passion. The writer shows you what music to use. What tools you’ll need. What kind of lubrication to use and not to use. And […]
Love, Compassion, and Sexuality #1000Speak – A Sexual Being : A Sexual Being.
Enough said..
My Cunnilingus Tips is Sexy Sunday #54 This week while I searched for my Sexy Sunday topic I came across Kittykat’s Bitandbobs Word 4 Wednesday, or W4W as she calls it. Of course with sex on the brain for my SS post I used my favorite word, Cunnilingus. post-body entry-content”> Then I got back to my […]
I’m thinking Bonnie and her husband need to find some new ways to spice up their sex life. Maybe you all can add some ideas for this couple. I’m thinking put some porn in on the TV and see what he does. Dress up in something he would never expect you to wear. Sometimes the […]

I am thrilled that I have past the year mark where my Sexy Sunday post are concerned. I didn’t even realize I’d done it until I started writing the title of this post. So Yaa me! Ok with that said you all know I’ve got a lot going on. But this week is Valentines day. […]
BEING A DOM. | mastererotica60. Now Ballsy Billy shared this with his fellow bloggers and I just had to re-blog and share with you. It’s 12 steps plus a bonus written by Master James. I hope you like it as much as I did.
This week I read about a young woman who slept with a football player after the Superbowl. Yea nothing special right. But she decided to take a selfie with caption: Just Fucked Edelman No Lie.” Here’s where it gets a crazy. This said woman whose name is Sabrina then gets permanently banned from Boston bars […]
With Trust, Anything is Possible – A Sexual Being : A Sexual Being. Kayla Lords has a “Wicked Wednesday” blog that I just had to share.. Trust is important in every and any relationship kinky or not.

Originally posted on Respectfully Submitted:
Yesterday was a busy stressful day for both Sir and me. We hadn’t slept the night before and we had both had busy and eventful days at work. After we came home, we began reading a few blogs. Reading blogs has been an interesting experience for us. Many times, I…
Originally posted on Kittykat-bitsandbobs:
Hey you! So, you’ve entered your teens, huh? Brace yourself honey, it’s not going to be easy. You are going to make friends, trust them and love them, and they will betray or leave you. That is going to hurt you badly, but you will get through it. Do not make…

I love it when my body betrays my mind. It’s a kind of freedom that lets me be who I am or who I was always afraid to be. And Yet he knows that. And always has known that about me. How is it that he knows when I need his touch the most? […]
Harvard University Offers ‘What What In The Butt: Anal Sex 101’. It’s not so hard to see why Harvard is focusing on how we can all have healthier sex lives. Harvard was smart enough to reach out to one of the Goodvibes educators for this years sex week programming. Who else could give the best […]
Having a Physical relationship will always depend on how you treat each other. But since we all want our relationship to last, then you will have to work on it. There also must be respect on both parts. You give respect and you get respect back.
The meet and greet sexy thread is where other sexy blogs post their URL’s with a short description of their blog in the hopes that word gets out about their blog.

Warning this post only has a pinch of sexy in it. But it’s the best I could do this week. Let’s face it the holidays might be a happy time for the kids but for the adults the holidays are full of stress. There’s extra money being spent left and right. Extra gifts that you […]
Originally posted on AN EMERGING DOM:
I realize that most of my postings have been about some form of BDSM or another – from training, to spankings, to discipline, and the joys of sex. Sometimes; however, we often associate a D/s dynamic with fast and hard things – even as we realize the sexual and…
No Doubt about it! Isn’t that what we all want. Just to be loved. Morning, noon, and especially night. So touch me, Taste me, Show me that you respect me. Let me be free to be me. Always give me a choice. Laugh with me. Share your life with me. Give me pleasure. […]
This week I received two e-mails from followers that are both in new relationships. And they both asked the same question: “Is there such a thing as too much sex?” I didn’t have to think too long about this one. Because the answer is Yes of course there’s such a thing as too much sex. […]
Help is on the way for all those women who are afraid to let their freak flags fly. There’s too many women out there that want to let go of their inhibitions but just don’t know how to do it. And I can totally relate. When I was in my twenties and thirties and […]
The journey starts with Love, respect, sex, communication, trust,and honesty, These are the five keys that every couple needs to keep their love connection. Without just one your relationship will start to crumble. Yes foreplay along with a compliment in the morning is a great way to start the day and it shows love, & […]
Originally posted on AN EMERGING DOM:
AnnieB mentioned she has been married 38 years and recently awakened to he need to submit to her husband and is struggling with letting go of control. As with yesterday’s response – the invite is open for you all if you have some question or topic that I might…
Originally posted on AN EMERGING DOM:
Rosewyn asked a couple of questions, and I’ll try to address each one separately, even though they are all interconnected. Before I continue, if you have a topic please feel free to message or comment – and I’d love for you to engage in this conversation as well! The…

I was so excited when I received a request from a follower to do a post on Romance Under Twenty Dollars. So I got to thinking about this, Romance doesn’t have to cost a thing. Romance is actually the things that cost the least and that make the most impression. It doesn’t matter if […]

Just because a woman is aroused doesn’t mean she desires sex. What’s all the mystery about? Why are they still doing studies on female arousal? Women can get aroused by many things. And it could happen at any time of the day. We could be out buying shoes and feel that twinge between our legs. […]

Have you ever wanted to hit the start re- button where your relationship is concerned? Just imagine if that button gave you and your spouse back that hot sex life you used to have. Well it can happen. You both just have to be willing to put in the effort. How hard is it to […]

I know it’s early but I’m going away. Enjoy your Sexy Sunday my wonderful sexy bloggers, friends, lovers, couples, followers. Make this Sexy Sunday count with your partner. Do something unexpected. Show them how sexy and spontaneous you can be. What Men Love In A Woman and Think Is Sexy? Let’s face it girls men […]
Wondering What a Dom/Master is?. I recognize it is your body, mind, and soul. I dominate you only because you have allowed me to, and when I see your body kneel before me in my mind and heart, you are raised above all other women and all the treasures of the earth.

1] Listening, Ok, I know I’m always promoting communication. But what if I told you to stop talking and start listening to what your partner has to say. You just might learn a few things that you never knew. Sometimes we are so busy talking that we’re not listening to a word our partners are […]
No matter what there is always respect.

This was not a good week for me. I had some major dental work done in the beginning of the week. And with fall/winter coming my pain levels shoot up. You could say I’ve been down lately. So with being out of sorts I’ve kinda been out of commission, if you know what I mean. […]
So I’ve been thinking about this post for a while now. And I’ve come to the conclusion that my readers are ready for this. And I’m ready for this. So here goes. I posted a picture on my page just yesterday to see what would happen. The caption was Vanilla couples could learn […]
Originally posted on Ibrahim Gana Malgwi's Blog:
7 Things You Should Not Do To A Woman. 1. Don’t beat her. 2. Don’t verbally abuse her. 3. Don’t disrespect her. 4. Don’t make her feel unloved. 5. Don’t rape her. 6. Don’t cheat on her. 7. Don’t ignore her love languages. Give her kindness, she’ll…