Holiday Sex? Sexy Sunday 46

Warning this post only has a pinch of sexy in it. But it’s the best I could do this week.

Let’s face it the holidays might be a happy time for the kids but for the adults the holidays are full of stress.

There’s extra money being spent left and right. Extra gifts that you forgot. The older kids want designer duds or gift cards to buy designer duds. The younger kids want video games, iPad’s, or anything electronic. No parent gets away cheap anymore. It’s not about family time it’s all about money.

So I’ll tell you all what we are doing, Twenty dollar gift cards for the kids. And bottles of two buck chuck for the adults.

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Yea, Just wrap a bow around each bottle and hand them out as if they were Dom Perignon. No worries it’s the new craze. Read the article I added.

Now I know making time for each other is another thing to stress about. For us we have Mike’s family to see on Christmas eve.

And this year things are really nuts on my side.

Christmas day is at my sister’s as usual for now. But this year things might change. You all know My Mom is sick. We actually just got back from Pa. My Mom’s been in the hospital since Thursday. She can’t breathe and took her oxygen off to go get a package off the porch and her legs gave out from under her. We think she passed out. Thank the angels my nephew was home and helped her up. So when we got to the hospital my two sisters were crying. That in itself killed me to see. Then we talked to her lung doctor and It seems the chemo is destroying her lungs. And that pneumonia the oncologist told us she had last month wasn’t pneumonia at all.

It turns out to be scaring and all from that fucking chemo. I was shocked that we were lied too. But so glad that this lung doctor was so honest with us. But at the same time I wanted to scream at the oncologist who have been dicking us around. Then to top it all off the lung doctor went one step further and confirmed my suspicions about the oncologist using my mother as a research project.

The reason is: Mom is a liver transplant recipient who has survived her transplant for sixteen years now. They don’t see her as a person. They see her as a number, or statistic. And that’s exactly what I wrote in a post on my other blog last week. It was before she was admitted into the hospital.

Livid doesn’t describe what I felt and still feel about Cancer doctors. What we heard this week just confirmed that Cancer is a business and always will be a business.

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Mom wants us all to have Christmas as usual for the kids here in Jersey. Yea how on earth do you have Christmas as usual knowing that your mother is dying. Mom is hoping she will be out of the hospital sometime this week. If so she wants us all to travel to Pa. on Saturday the 27th for Christmas with her and my baby sister’s family at their home. If she’s not out of the hospital then of course we will all be in her hospital room.

So as I write this post I don’t know what we’re doing. I’m exhausted, I’m numb, I can’t cry anymore. And after all the traveling we’ve done this past week, including the three hours up to Pennsylvania, the visiting for four hours, and then the three-hour ride back home just yesterday I’m done.  I just wish I had a crystal ball and a magic wand.

By next Saturday night I can tell you all that this Jersey girl’s back is not only going to be screaming but will be begging me for that surgery I’m having next month. Yes you heard that right, back surgery. I’ll explain in another post. Just not on this Sexy Sunday.

Normally Mike and l have a quite Christmas eve filled with sexcapades.  But this year that’s just not going to happen. I don’t know what’s happening from day-to-day.

But I can tell you that by the time this freaking Christmas is over I’ll be trying to figure out some creative ways to soothe my Sir’s blue balls. The good news is that he’s a patient man. And he’s only worried about me and what’s happening to my Mom.

I’ll tell you I’m hoping for a miracle. But I just don’t think that’s what we are going to get this year.

But if by chance Mom’s health stables out I’ll need a few days to recuperate. And by then it will be New Years eve. And our thirty year anniversary. Mike and I met on New Year’s eve.

If we get a chance to celebrate New Year’s eve this year by ourselves I’m all for locking ourselves into our tiny little home. I would like to block out the world for as many hours as possible.

We’ll turn up the heat. Turn off the phone. Cook a pot of Chili. Get out the porn. And set up our bedroom for a marathon full of kinky hot sex.

I hope you all hug your spouses just a little longer today. And have yourselves a merry Sexy Sunday. And don’t forget the lube..

Merry Christmas everyone. This year as you look around the room on Christmas day take it all in. Enjoy every moment. Because next year you just never know what can happen..

Hugs from Mike and I to all of you and yours..xo..

 

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20 thoughts on “Holiday Sex? Sexy Sunday 46

  1. I have been having a very difficult morning so far. But you are right. I’ll enjoy every minute I can enjoy of this time with my kids and my family.

    I hope things go as smoothly as they can for you.
    And pray your mother is not in too much pain.

    Let me know if at some point you want my reiki help.
    Many hugs to you both.
    XO

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    • Aww thanks Dawn, What is Reiki? If you think it can help Mom go for it. Yes enjoy your kids, Give them all that Mommy love cause I know kids can and will make sure you feel the love back. Its in their sweet smiles and those warm hugs at the end of the day. Enjoy your holidays my friend. Sending you hugs and lots of love!!

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      • I’m sorry I didn’t get back to you earlier. Reiki is a work on energy, using universal energy. Unfortunately I can’t do it on your mom without her knowledge, her agreement, her participation…
        I can do it on you though, to help ease the physical and emotional pain. Email me 🙂

        I am enjoying my holidays so far. A few more presents to wrap and I’m done, lots of food to prepare… things I enjoy doing 🙂
        Hugs, love, lots of goodwill to you Annie.

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        • Yes I’m open to Reiki. I could really use all the help I can get, lol. Mom would love it, This past summer we burnt sage all through the house. And each room we entered I told her to envision bright blue light to cleanse every nook and cranny. By the time we got to the last room I knew it was working as we just started to laugh. It felt great and seeing Mom that happy was worth it. She’s been through so much. She got home from the hospital last night. We are all going up to Pa on Saturday. This was the first Christmas Mom wasn’t with me and my sister. She Skyped but it just wasn’t the same.

          I hope you and your children had a glorious day. There’s Nothing like hearing the sound of children laughing. I will E-mail you. Hugs!!! 🙂

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  2. Great post Annie! Here’s wishing the best for your mother! Happy Holidays for you and yours and a very Happy anniversary for you and Mike!
    My prays will be sent your way!

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    • Pandora Spocks, After the week I’ve had you have no idea how much that statement means to me. Thank you for taking the time to let me know that you enjoyed Sammy’s story. I’m almost done with Master Mike Sloan’s story. It will be half the size of Sammy’s story. I hope you had a very Merry Christmas and your New year is filled with lots of love and laughter.. 🙂

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      • We are having a pleasant Christmas, hope the same is true for you despite a rough week. I really enjoyed Sammy and look forward to reading about Master Mike. I understand the attachment to characters; it was a little traumatic when I finished writing Luke & Bella. I hope you enjoy the rest of your holiday. By the way, I passed along your Sir’s 12 Days of Christmas. I passed it along to my Sir. 🙂

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        • Pandora when I saw his twelve days of Christmas I just had to laugh. It doesn’t matter how many years we are married, or how much sex we have, men are going to be men. And they love the fantasy of having those twelve days of Christmas, ahaha.
          You really did make my day. And as soon as I get some time I promise to read about Luke & Bella. I so understand what you mean, I cried while writing that last chapter of Sammy’s story. And I think It’s something that only another writer can understand. Bringing the story to an end, and feeling that sense of accomplishment. It’s a moment I will never forget. Thank you again for taking the time to read my book. I’m going to be looking for Beta readers. If you’re interested let me know.. 🙂

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            • Oh that would be wonderful! Thanks for the interest. I’m determined to do this book the right way. I didn’t have beta’s with the first. And I paid for that. I had to go back in after with an editor and fix things that should have been done in the first place. I’ts still not perfect and I guess you get what you pay for right? So this next books not being published until I can do it right. Have a great weekend Pandora> Hugs coming your way!!! 🙂

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  3. Dear friend, your plate is certainly full but so is your heart, overflowing with love for everyone. God hears us, yet has his plans for whatever reasons us earthling will never know. Try and find some peace and joy in your heart for what you have in this exact now. Sending you love, prayers and many huge hugs! xoxoxoxo Deb ❤

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    • Thank you D.G. I can feel the love. You are one special lady. I can’t wait to meet you one day. This new year is going to be bitter sweet. But some how we will get through it. As for God, he sure can dish it out, I hope he can take it. Cause I have no trouble letting him know how I feel, Jersey style, lol. 🙂 ❤

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