Predictable Sex is Sexy Sunday # 23

Most couples can’t keep their hands off of each other when they’re first dating. And if you’re lucky sex doesn’t have to become predictable after you’ve been in that relationship for a long period of time.

If for some reason you’ve lost the sizzle and now your sex life is barely a drizzle then it’s time to make shit happen.  Wake up and say What the fuck because there’s  no excuse if both of you are healthy for dull sex. If you want an amazing sex life then it’s up to you and your spouse to make it happen. What happens behind closed doors is no one’s business but your own. If it feels good do it.

I know this because in my home we make sure our sex life is a priority. Sure we have had times when I just couldn’t because of health reasons. But once those health issues were remedied so was our sex life. We have always found a way to make up for lost time, and then some.

I will never understand it when I hear couples complaining about their non existing sex lives. If there’s no sex or you’re only getting it twice a year then it’s time to start communicating.

And no one wants the kind of sex that’s over in fifteen minutes or less. But when it does happen that’s when you both need to kick it into overdrive. The only reason for not having a great sex life is for health reasons. Other than that I just don’t get it.

So how do we keep from losing that sizzle? We talk to each other. We get creative. Preferably both of you are looking for new ways to keep the sex from getting hum drum boring. There’s only so many times you can do the missionary position before it’s just downright dull and uneventful. If that’s the case then what’s the sense? There’s no reason for her to run to the bedroom with you following close behind. Or for her to grab you by the hand for a quickie while the kids are out playing. But make sex fun, dirty, exciting, with some laughter thrown in and see what happens. 

No one wants predictable bad sex.  The good thing is that you can fix bad sex. It’s not that difficult to put yourself and your partner in the mood when the sex is fucking fantastic.  And when it’s bad you can just start over. The best thing about being with someone for a long period of time is that you can be yourself. You trust that he or she isn’t going to hurt you. So open up, be playful, and let your inhibitions go.

Talking about having kinky sex will most times start your engines and to do the trick to get you both in the mood. Ask your spouse if they’re willing to try some new sexy stuff. Nine times out of ten they will ask what you have in mind. So be ready to give them an example.

If you still have no idea how to make your sex life exciting, get on the computer. Sit down together.  Punch in how to make sex new and exciting. Remember Orgasms begin in our brains. The power of suggestion is an amazing tool. And tools are what we all need to have great sex.

Experimenting is a great way to find what it is that you like, and what it is that you don’t. Guys I’ve said it before so listen up; Get her a blindfold. This is the best way for her to let her inhibitions go. Make sure you tell her what it is that you’re going to do to her. And remember take it slow. Get some oils and rub them all over her body. Make it all about her and she will reciprocate. Show her what it is that you like.  Never make her feel bad for not knowing how to do something.

When was the last time you both watched a porno? Well they’ve changed. They even make them from the women’s point of view. Try NinaHartley.com. Make sure you pay extra attention to your woman. She is not a porn star whose getting paid for that cum shot. She’s your spouse whose willing to watch porn with you. So behave yourself.

And once the sex has commenced it’s time to stop watching the TV.  If you don’t she will feel like you’re more into the porn star then her. It’s a girl thing and it’s important to know. Sex is about keeping your woman happy. Foreplay is important! If you can keep her happy in the bedroom, living room, kitchen or garage. She will keep you happy for the rest of your life. Lets face it guys if you can get your woman in the mood for sex and often, then life will be easier for the both of you.

Soon she will be the one that’s trying to surprise you with something kinky. And no matter what it is that she wants to try. do it. If she is willing to try new and exciting things with you, then you had better be prepared when the box arrives from Goodvibes.com/kbid=214397.  Or when she brings home a bag of goodies from the adult toy store.

Lets say it’s Wednesday morning and it’s summer so the kids are out of school. Either she’s home with them or she’s at work. Either way now is the time to send her a sexy text message. Tell her how beautiful she is and give her a taste of what you plan on doing to her when you get home. Try; Meet me in the shower at five thirty. Or when I get home I want you all to myself. Can you make that happen?

Keeping your sex life new and exciting is one of the most important things you can do in any relationship. But it takes two. Sure you can have sex by yourself and you should, and often. But having sex or making love to the one person that loves you no matter what is the best feeling in the world.

If you work together your sex life can and will be amazing. Take it from someone who’s been married for thirty years. It’s not that hard to keep the Sizzle in your sex life.

Have a Sexy Sunday. And don’t forget the lube.

Goodvibes.com

 

8 thoughts on “Predictable Sex is Sexy Sunday # 23

    • Exactly Elle, When there’s a will there certainly is a way. And it takes two. Women know how to tease a man and get him in the mood. And if the man gets creative he can have her any way he wants, Lol..
      Thanks for the comment Hispetitelle, It’s always nice to see a friendly face on my blog..:)

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    • Welcome Wilderness Kayaks,I am so glad you took the plunge and decided to say hi.
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