Where Sex is Concerned, Sexy Sunday #7

I like where the next generation is going where SEX is concerned. Their relationships need work.  But their sex lives are a lot more open and free than they were when I was younger.  These women aren’t afraid to hook-up or have a one night stand. If they want to have SEX they find someone who can pleasure them and give them that mind-blowing ORGASM with no strings attached. They get instant SEXUAL gratification. They even have a name for it Friends with benefits. I love that.

There’s nothing wrong with being open and honest about your sex life. The next generation of women have no problem talking about the VIBRATOR or toys they purchased online. Or how they walked into that adult toy store over the weekend.

But their relationships are a mess. I mean don’t get me wrong the sex has to be amazing when it’s that spontaneous, open and down right hot. But when there’s no one to cuddle or laugh with afterwards. How can that be a good thing? A text message is just not the same as looking into a person’s eye’s and saying hay that was fucking fantastic.

Now I’m all for a QUICKIE every now and again. But I also like it when my Sir walks up behind me and grabs my ass and nozzles my neck then takes me by the hand as I follow him to the bedroom.

Sure Getting instant gratification in some club bathroom sounds fun if you’re going home with that person. But with a stranger that you’re never going to see again, I don’t know. And if you do see this guy/gal again does that mean you have to do them again in the next club bathroom? What kind of friend with benefits is that? It’s a Wham Bamm Thank You Mam or Man society we live in now.

So how do the men stack up in this new world of instant SEXUAL GRATIFICATION? Well one thing is for sure they don’t have to work so hard to get laid. Now this is only my opinion but what happened to the chase? Men should have to work for something that’s that special. Both sexes in this next generation want everything now. It’s what they know. Remember everything they do is instant. Between the computers, video games, e-mails and text. No one has to wait for anything. So I guess why wait for SEX.

What I want to know is how is the next generation going to have lasting relationships if they can’t talk face to face with another human being. That’s going to be something we’re going to have to wait and see for ourselves.

Now a days no one even has to remember a phone number anymore. When I met my Sir it was New Year’s Eve. Before I left his car that early morning, Yes it was early that next morning, New Year’s day. Anyway I took out my lipstick and opened up his glove compartment. Then I wrote my phone number on the envelope to his cars registration. Pretty smart ha.. He called me later that day and we went to a movie. Now a days they grab the man’s cell phone and punch their number in. There is no more, I lost your number and was hoping to bump into you. And if they don’t call what happens then?

It’s going to be something to find out where these women go in life. Will women finally be the highest paid CEO’s? Will they get the equality in the board rooms that we have been fighting for generations? I think they will. And that’s because the men who are in the same age bracket would much rather give in than fight with these women.

And I can’t wait to see what happens in politics.

Women my age could learn a lot from the next generation where sex is concerned. They aren’t wall flowers. They see what they want and they go get it. That includes SEX and an Orgasms two. Have you read Cosmopolitan magazine lately? It’s all changed, the men are the one’s with the most insecurities. They ask questions like; Should I sleep over? Should I cuddle for twenty minutes and then leave? If I go down on her will she do me? What do I look like on top?

What I want to know is wtf is happening to this generation of Men.

Are there really any good strong males out there anymore or have the women eaten them up and spit them out. Are women these days too aggressive? No I think women are aggressive today only when they have to be. And there are still plenty of strong men out there that exude confidence and DOMINANCE. But they know how to give in, in order to get what they want. So it’s kind of like BDSM, it’s the SUBMISSIVE that’s really in charge, And I like it.

So I was watching a show on called Gigolo’s last night and can I just say that if anything happens to my Sir I will be going to Vegas a few times a year to get my freak on. The rest of the year it will be me and my Magic Wand.

So back to the Gigolo’s. Why are these women looking for an escort? The same reason guys have been looking for an escort since the beginning of time. Women want what they can’t get at home. Just like men want what they can’t get at home. So why not just give each other what it is you both want and no one has to look for an escort.

Ladies men want to hear about your FANTASIES. And if you can’t tell them face to face find another way. Lets say you want your man to give you better ORAL sex. And lets say he wants ANAL sex. Why not get some Porn that shows how it’s done. You can Go to u-tube and look up Nina Hartley, She has video’s on every sexual subject.  And if the sex is done right you’re both going to be happy.

Guys when she says Anal is disgusting or that it’s going to hurt, you have to be ready with an answer. How about lets take shower together and get nice and clean. Try getting some shaving cream and making sure each of you is perfect for each other. Shaving each others privates can be very intimate and may I add FUN. Guys you have to be willing to do your homework before you ask for Anal. So When she tells you it’s going to hurt you say, We will take it SLOW, and I have lots of LUBE. Let her know that you’re not going to shove your member into her ass before she’s ready. These kinds of sexual relations take time.

Make sure you don’t use silicone based LUBE on your woman for anal. It could burn, and if it burns you may never get the chance to touch her there again. To be on the safe side always use water based for Anal sex. LUBE makes things much easier on her, and the SEX that much better for you both.

I keep telling you where there is a will there is a way. Hasn’t it always been about the give and take?  You have to give in order to get. And if you both do your homework it can be so much fun for both of you.

If it’s KINKY he wants to get on the internet and look it up. If she wants you to get better at licking her pussy than by all means get on the internet and look it up. I re-blogged a post about CUNNILINGUS, It’s a great piece, look in my categories, there’s even pictures. You just might learn a thing or two.

Here’s another thing, If you guys are going to watch PORN please don’t expect women to be porn star’s. For one thing these porn stars are getting paid for what they are doing on camera. And as soon as the director yells Cut they are out of there. It’s FICTION. Your wife or spouse or partner isn’t a PORN star. She’s a woman who wants to be held, she wants the romance. She doesn’t want cum on her face or in her hair.

That money shot is for the porn star’s wallet. So again it comes down to COMMUNICATION. It’s always been about communication. Talk to your spouse. Get creative where your SEX life is concerned.

Ladies if you’re just not in the mood, you can try some lube that tingle’s. Go online or to the nearest drugstore. Zestra is the one that got me back on track. At Goodvibes has a line of lubes called Please. One of them does the same thing that Zestra does.  Goodvibes.com..

Imagine your spouses surprise when he comes home and finds you in some slinky lingerie with a new toy. Just the fact that you put this fun-filled hour or two into motion is going to excite him. Tell him to go into the shower and get cleaned up.  That you will be getting warmed up and will be waiting when he’s done. Try some message oils. It’s only going to take one of you to open that door to your SEX LIFE.  And before you know it you will be on your way. All it’s going to take if for you just open your mind up. And where your sex life is concerned you’ll amaze yourself.

I hope you have a very Sexy Sunday. And don’t forget the Lube.

 

This week I received lube from Pure Romance. Ladies Pure Romance has a whipped lube that taste like VANILLA cupcakes. And it can be used on both of you and your toys. No calories either. So if you don’t like going down on him or he doesn’t like going down on you because it smells a little musky like it should or like perfume. You can get out the whipped vanilla cupcake Lube and both of you can have an amazing ORAL experience. Don’t forget to laugh about it. The next time your spouse says I could really go for a vanilla cupcake you’ll both laugh thinking about your vanilla lube. And if that happens you will more than likely have your sex life back on track.

 

 

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http://www.Pureromance.com
http://www.Ninaheartly.utube.com

Goodvibes.com Remember is one stop shopping.  They not only sell pleasurable toys but they have information and advice on sex and relationships.

 

4 thoughts on “Where Sex is Concerned, Sexy Sunday #7

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